By Diana Jura
Yes! Seduction may be an art but its practitioners are thinning in Kenya. One wrong move and you are out of the game. Some men get it right the first time yet for others it is ever so elusive. Whether you win or lose in the seduction game depends greatly on the style you employ.
Take a look at the signature seduction styles of the Sumu La Penzi men and see how the game is played. You might learn a thing or two.
Isolate Your Victim.
Want leverage in the dating game? Take a lesson from Eric. He insists on meeting Eva out of the office. Why? Because this way she is away from her comfort zone and there is little to no distraction. He captures her undivided attention and has the home turf advantage. A familiar environment gives a man confidence and a confident man is always more attractive.
Mix pleasure with pain.
Bad boys are no good but good boys are no fun. Twisted but true. Bad boys are manipulative creatures who know which strings to pull to get a reaction. Martin uses this style all the time on Eva and it works. She may complain but she keeps coming back for that bad boy action.
Send mixed signals
Blow hot and cold. Predictably, sweet gets boring; always keep her guessing your next move. Shower her with your undivided attention one moment then without an explanation fall off the face of the earth. With this style you achieve two key seduction points, an air of mystery that keeps her captivated and secondly, the relationship is kept interesting because of the unpredictable nature of events. It works for Martin.
Master the Art of the Bold Move
Mwanaume ni confidence! Women love grand gestures and making an effort pays. Make a habit of sweeping her off her feet in elaborate fashion and you won’t be quickly forgotten. Ever wondered how Mr. Rent keeps a girl like Mariam around? He is a big man who does big things.
The Sumu La Penzi men are on their A game in the art of seduction, lets hope you are on yours.
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